Saturday, September 22, 2012
Things We Do For Love!!!: Category of the wrong spouses.....
Things We Do For Love!!!: Category of the wrong spouses.....: THE HUSBAND 1.WICKED HUSBAND: The wicked husband is an arrogant, unb...
Category of the wrong spouses.....
1.WICKED HUSBAND: The wicked husband is an arrogant,
unbending, hard, tough, unadvisable, unyielding and proud wife beater. He has
no fear or honour for anybody.
2.Mini husband: This kind of husband performs excellently in bed or in the dinning table but cannot anything else. They re not responsible for the family’s upkeep, some re too lazy to work and other even spend money on strange women outside.
3. Bachelor husband: This kind of man lives in a
separate room. He calls his friends and talks for several hours but cannot
speak to his wife. He still lives with a bachelor mentality even though he is
married.
4.Acidic husband: He neither laughs nor jokes with
anybody. He cannot cope with errors either. He lives like an army major and
behaves as if he is in the war front. He runs the house like a military
barracks.
5.Slave master husband: This is a man that believes that
a woman is a housemaid. His ideology is that a woman is a baby making machine
and factory for work. He expects his wife to be a sex machine.
6. General husband: A man that believes that believes
that he should chase anything in skirts. He has chains of girlfriends,
concubines, mistresses; he patronizes
prostitutes; he is simply uncontrollable when it comes to sex. Such men don’t
mind sleeping with their housemaids and even their wives relations. H e is
available to anybody and everybody.
7. Dry husband: This man is not romantic at all. There
is no form of intimacy with the wife. She cannot easily talk to him because of
fear. He disgraces his wife in the presence of his friends and other people.
This kind of man does not give any kind of respect to his wife in any way.
To Be
Continued!!!
Monday, August 20, 2012
Things We Do For Love!!!: 10 Mistakes Men Make In Bed
Things We Do For Love!!!: 10 Mistakes Men Make In Bed: Have you ever wondered why she has a frown whenever you feel you should have given her a good time? If you have your woman constantly at wit...
10 Mistakes Men Make In Bed
Have you ever wondered why she has a frown whenever you feel you should have given her a good time? If you have your woman constantly at wits end or unhappy after sex with you, be sure that there is a mistake somewhere and you just might be making one or more of the 10 most common mistakes men make in bed.
1- Why start the foreplay in bed? It is a bore when everything starts and ends in bed, even when you know that the ultimate game is sex, you should not make foreplay only a bed thing. You could get cuddly while in the sitting room or in the eatery, sneaking a peck on the forehead, a touch on her nape and a brief brush around her earlobe even while driving sure would get
her in the mood.
2 - Why aim for the clits? I am yet to understand why men always aim for the clitoris , it’s not some doorknob. Try not to always go straight for the g- spot, discover where she is most sensitive and responsive. I am sure your woman would be more than glad to show you.
3 - Why make it a silent game? No one ever said people should have sex in silence, learn to talk while in bed, you could share compliments or ask if she is okay with a certain move you make while in the act, laughter and small talks would make the atmosphere less tense and it sure would make the sex better.
4 - Are you the scorer, she the keeper? This is quite common for men. Leaving a woman hanging in sex to me is more of a sin. Ensure you carry the woman along and never ever come before her, except
you are a stallion and can rise immediately. If not allow her get to a semi climax before riding so you can hit the roof together, it is
more fun that way.
5- Quit the conventional. I hear some folks talk about conventional sex styles, well, if the woman is okay with that, I seal my lips. However, most modern women enjoy more spice and dynamics in bed. Be creative with sex; avoid being a straightjacket dude in bed. You would be surprised how crazy and creative your gentle woman can be.
6 - How do you lick the sauce? Many men miss it when giving a woman a head. The clit is better seen like a sauce that needs to be licked up than a hot dog that needs to shove down the throat. Quit the disgusting rush to give her a head, and if you must, ensure you do it right.
7 - So what is with the porn approach? Every woman would appreciate some respect while in bed. Do not treat your woman like your favourite porn star or try to play out a porn fantasy on her except there is a common understanding to this end. Quit imposing blowjobs and abstain from the use of violence or dirty languages.
8 - You missed the G-spot? It is terrible to go hovering under without a mental tracker of where you’re headed. It is highly unsexy for a man not to know where to find the G-spot. Next time you’re going on a treasure hunt be sure to go with your map or better still politely, ask for directions.
9 - Did you visit the gym? One rather bad sex move is dozing off immediately after the act. Hey, come on! A little
tease or a warm cuddle would sure do the trick. Do not go rolling off to the other side and snoring off immediately. Be sure she is contented and even where you performed below expectation, apologise and promise a better one next time. Plant kisses on her and have her sleep off on you, a move most women would die for.
10- What is the packaging? Keep you self clean and appealing, a body odour, bad breath, unshaved… would sure be a big mistake. Anyone would feel more aroused by a sweet and clean
body. When next you about going on that sex escapade, ensure you a double check and get rid of any offensive smells or sights.
1- Why start the foreplay in bed? It is a bore when everything starts and ends in bed, even when you know that the ultimate game is sex, you should not make foreplay only a bed thing. You could get cuddly while in the sitting room or in the eatery, sneaking a peck on the forehead, a touch on her nape and a brief brush around her earlobe even while driving sure would get
her in the mood.
2 - Why aim for the clits? I am yet to understand why men always aim for the clitoris , it’s not some doorknob. Try not to always go straight for the g- spot, discover where she is most sensitive and responsive. I am sure your woman would be more than glad to show you.
3 - Why make it a silent game? No one ever said people should have sex in silence, learn to talk while in bed, you could share compliments or ask if she is okay with a certain move you make while in the act, laughter and small talks would make the atmosphere less tense and it sure would make the sex better.
4 - Are you the scorer, she the keeper? This is quite common for men. Leaving a woman hanging in sex to me is more of a sin. Ensure you carry the woman along and never ever come before her, except
you are a stallion and can rise immediately. If not allow her get to a semi climax before riding so you can hit the roof together, it is
more fun that way.
5- Quit the conventional. I hear some folks talk about conventional sex styles, well, if the woman is okay with that, I seal my lips. However, most modern women enjoy more spice and dynamics in bed. Be creative with sex; avoid being a straightjacket dude in bed. You would be surprised how crazy and creative your gentle woman can be.
6 - How do you lick the sauce? Many men miss it when giving a woman a head. The clit is better seen like a sauce that needs to be licked up than a hot dog that needs to shove down the throat. Quit the disgusting rush to give her a head, and if you must, ensure you do it right.
7 - So what is with the porn approach? Every woman would appreciate some respect while in bed. Do not treat your woman like your favourite porn star or try to play out a porn fantasy on her except there is a common understanding to this end. Quit imposing blowjobs and abstain from the use of violence or dirty languages.
8 - You missed the G-spot? It is terrible to go hovering under without a mental tracker of where you’re headed. It is highly unsexy for a man not to know where to find the G-spot. Next time you’re going on a treasure hunt be sure to go with your map or better still politely, ask for directions.
9 - Did you visit the gym? One rather bad sex move is dozing off immediately after the act. Hey, come on! A little
tease or a warm cuddle would sure do the trick. Do not go rolling off to the other side and snoring off immediately. Be sure she is contented and even where you performed below expectation, apologise and promise a better one next time. Plant kisses on her and have her sleep off on you, a move most women would die for.
10- What is the packaging? Keep you self clean and appealing, a body odour, bad breath, unshaved… would sure be a big mistake. Anyone would feel more aroused by a sweet and clean
body. When next you about going on that sex escapade, ensure you a double check and get rid of any offensive smells or sights.
Monday, August 13, 2012
Things We Do For Love!!!: WAYS TO TELL YOUR HUSBAND THAT YOU LOVES HIM
Things We Do For Love!!!: WAYS TO TELL YOUR HUSBAND THAT YOU LOVES HIM: As we enter into marriage, we may wonder how we ever lived life without our mate. We’re focused on each other, and that makes us close. Ho...
WAYS TO TELL YOUR HUSBAND THAT YOU LOVES HIM
As we enter into marriage, we may wonder how we ever lived life without our mate. We’re focused on each other, and that makes us close.
However, the longer we’re married, our focus tends to turn to jobs, bills, or children and less on each other. Unfortunately, this causes many marriages to turn cold and some eventually die.
Have you ever wondered how people stay married for 30, 40, or more years? Do you want your marriage to last a lifetime? The key is to stay focused on your mate.
Here are some ways for you to show your husband your love. Choose at least five every day and watch your marriage blossom into a wonderful relationship!
TEXT HIM A LOVE MESSAGE -Send him a romantic text message on his cell. Make sure it’s sweet but spicy.
DO ONE OF HIS CHORES FOR HIM -Pick a chore that he dreads, such as mowing the lawn, and do it for him. Watch him as he sighs with relief.
START A HOBBY TOGETHER Sharing a hobby together such as horse back riding, completing a home improvement project, watching sports together can help keep you close.
PLAY A GAME TOGETHER Have fun doing things together such as playing board games, riding bumper boats, or playing miniature golf. Just remember, if he should get the best of you, don’t tackle him unless you’re laughing!
SHOW APPRECIATION When your husband works hard, or does something for you, let him know you appreciate him.
MAKE YOUR HOME HIS REFUGE Let your home be a haven were your husband can retreat from the stresses of life. Do your best to make it a pleasant environment.
LAUGH AT HIS ANTICS – Don’t let the little things that your husband does get on your nerves. If you think about it, some of these things may have been what attracted you to him! He just wouldn’t be the same if he didn’t do these things.
PRAY FOR HIM – Ask God to give him that extra boost to make everything OK. Let your husband hear you pray too. This will let him know that when you can’t make it right, you’ll ask someone who can.
CHECK BEFORE THROWING THINGS AWAY If your husband has some things that seem useless to you, don’t trash them until you’ve made sure he doesn’t need them.
CHECK BEFORE REARRANGING Ask your husband if it’s OK before you move or straighten things on his desk or work area. If he has things where it’s easy to find, it might make it chaotic if it’s moved.
TAKE A WALK OR A HIKE TOGETHER Let nature set the mood for romance! Talk, listen, and hold hands.
DON’T EXPECT HIM TO READ YOUR MIND - If there is something you want your husband to know about you, tell him. Don’t expect him to just know what you’re thinking or what you need.
LAUGH TOGETHER - Forget your adults for awhile, and just act silly together. Also, if something should go awry, try to find some humor in it somewhere. This will also reduce the stress of the situation.
RESIST THE URGE TO SNOOP Don’t sneak around and check up on your husband, if you want to know something, ask him to his face.
GIVE HIM A ROMANTIC CARD – Don’t wait for a special occasion to give him a card. Find the most romantic card you can find and leave it in his car. Don’t forget to add your own personal message! Maybe you’ll even make him nervous, wondering if he forgot an anniversary!
PACK HIS FAVORITE TREAT Buy his favorite candy bar or other treat, and pack it in his lunch with a love note.
TAKE A BUBBLE BATH TOGETHER This is self-explanatory.
E-MAIL HIM AN INVITATION FOR ROMANCE Invite him on a rendezvous with you! Build his anticipation, then tell him to RSVP!
TAKE HIM TO TEST DRIVE HIS DREAM CAR - Drive him to a car lot some Saturday, and let him test drive the car of his dreams – even though you probably won’t buy it.
LET HIM BUY THAT TOY Permit him to buy that toy he’s been wanting so badly. Better yet, put some of your own things off, save the money and buy it for him yourself!
TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE The future isn’t as far away as it seems sometimes. Talk about where you’d like to be when you’re married 50 years, and work on making those dreams happen.
GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT Don’t jump to conclusions if your husband has said or done something questionable. Give him the chance to explain before you pass judgement.
LET HIM BE THE MAN OF THE HOUSE Although this is growing increasingly unpopular, it does still work. Just because your husband is in charge of the household doesn’t mean that you can’t share your opinions, it just means he’s captain of the team.
SAY, “I’M SORRY” Although you may not want to admit it, there will be times when you’re in the wrong. Maybe you’ve said something hurtful or done something insensitive. Never have too much pride to tell him you’re sorry.
KEEP YOUR PROMISES If you told your husband you’d do something, make sure that you follow through.
RUB HIS FEET Steer him to the recliner and pull off his shoes. Rub his feet for at least 20 minutes. It has been told that this may even improve his health!
MAKE YOUR BEDROOM A LOVER’S PARADISE Turn your ordinary bedroom into any lover’s dream without a lot of expense. Remove clutter and anything that doesn’t belong, and replace it with scented candles and fresh flowers. Hang pretty curtains and find some comfy bedding. Place mirrors to reflect candlelight, and misting fountains for a romantic effect.
WRITE A NOTE ON THE STEAMED-UP BATHROOM MIRROR - While your husband is showering, sneak in and write, “I love you” on the steamed-up bathroom mirror. This will steam him up as well, especially if you seal it with your lip prints!
PUT LOVE IN HIS SUDS - I’m talking about a bar of soap! Scratch “I love you” into his soap so he’ll find it the next time he showers. (You may not want to seal this note with your lip prints, though).
GIVE HIM A MASSAGE - Go buy some sweet smelling oils and turn your bedroom into a spa! Give your husband a full body massage and work out those aching muscles.
PLAY ROMANTIC MUSIC - Keep a good deal of romantic music on hand in your bedroom to help set the mood for romance.
Ladies in the house what do you think?
However, the longer we’re married, our focus tends to turn to jobs, bills, or children and less on each other. Unfortunately, this causes many marriages to turn cold and some eventually die.
Have you ever wondered how people stay married for 30, 40, or more years? Do you want your marriage to last a lifetime? The key is to stay focused on your mate.
Here are some ways for you to show your husband your love. Choose at least five every day and watch your marriage blossom into a wonderful relationship!
TEXT HIM A LOVE MESSAGE -Send him a romantic text message on his cell. Make sure it’s sweet but spicy.
DO ONE OF HIS CHORES FOR HIM -Pick a chore that he dreads, such as mowing the lawn, and do it for him. Watch him as he sighs with relief.
START A HOBBY TOGETHER Sharing a hobby together such as horse back riding, completing a home improvement project, watching sports together can help keep you close.
PLAY A GAME TOGETHER Have fun doing things together such as playing board games, riding bumper boats, or playing miniature golf. Just remember, if he should get the best of you, don’t tackle him unless you’re laughing!
SHOW APPRECIATION When your husband works hard, or does something for you, let him know you appreciate him.
MAKE YOUR HOME HIS REFUGE Let your home be a haven were your husband can retreat from the stresses of life. Do your best to make it a pleasant environment.
LAUGH AT HIS ANTICS – Don’t let the little things that your husband does get on your nerves. If you think about it, some of these things may have been what attracted you to him! He just wouldn’t be the same if he didn’t do these things.
PRAY FOR HIM – Ask God to give him that extra boost to make everything OK. Let your husband hear you pray too. This will let him know that when you can’t make it right, you’ll ask someone who can.
CHECK BEFORE THROWING THINGS AWAY If your husband has some things that seem useless to you, don’t trash them until you’ve made sure he doesn’t need them.
CHECK BEFORE REARRANGING Ask your husband if it’s OK before you move or straighten things on his desk or work area. If he has things where it’s easy to find, it might make it chaotic if it’s moved.
TAKE A WALK OR A HIKE TOGETHER Let nature set the mood for romance! Talk, listen, and hold hands.
DON’T EXPECT HIM TO READ YOUR MIND - If there is something you want your husband to know about you, tell him. Don’t expect him to just know what you’re thinking or what you need.
LAUGH TOGETHER - Forget your adults for awhile, and just act silly together. Also, if something should go awry, try to find some humor in it somewhere. This will also reduce the stress of the situation.
RESIST THE URGE TO SNOOP Don’t sneak around and check up on your husband, if you want to know something, ask him to his face.
GIVE HIM A ROMANTIC CARD – Don’t wait for a special occasion to give him a card. Find the most romantic card you can find and leave it in his car. Don’t forget to add your own personal message! Maybe you’ll even make him nervous, wondering if he forgot an anniversary!
PACK HIS FAVORITE TREAT Buy his favorite candy bar or other treat, and pack it in his lunch with a love note.
TAKE A BUBBLE BATH TOGETHER This is self-explanatory.
E-MAIL HIM AN INVITATION FOR ROMANCE Invite him on a rendezvous with you! Build his anticipation, then tell him to RSVP!
TAKE HIM TO TEST DRIVE HIS DREAM CAR - Drive him to a car lot some Saturday, and let him test drive the car of his dreams – even though you probably won’t buy it.
LET HIM BUY THAT TOY Permit him to buy that toy he’s been wanting so badly. Better yet, put some of your own things off, save the money and buy it for him yourself!
TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE The future isn’t as far away as it seems sometimes. Talk about where you’d like to be when you’re married 50 years, and work on making those dreams happen.
GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT Don’t jump to conclusions if your husband has said or done something questionable. Give him the chance to explain before you pass judgement.
LET HIM BE THE MAN OF THE HOUSE Although this is growing increasingly unpopular, it does still work. Just because your husband is in charge of the household doesn’t mean that you can’t share your opinions, it just means he’s captain of the team.
SAY, “I’M SORRY” Although you may not want to admit it, there will be times when you’re in the wrong. Maybe you’ve said something hurtful or done something insensitive. Never have too much pride to tell him you’re sorry.
KEEP YOUR PROMISES If you told your husband you’d do something, make sure that you follow through.
RUB HIS FEET Steer him to the recliner and pull off his shoes. Rub his feet for at least 20 minutes. It has been told that this may even improve his health!
MAKE YOUR BEDROOM A LOVER’S PARADISE Turn your ordinary bedroom into any lover’s dream without a lot of expense. Remove clutter and anything that doesn’t belong, and replace it with scented candles and fresh flowers. Hang pretty curtains and find some comfy bedding. Place mirrors to reflect candlelight, and misting fountains for a romantic effect.
WRITE A NOTE ON THE STEAMED-UP BATHROOM MIRROR - While your husband is showering, sneak in and write, “I love you” on the steamed-up bathroom mirror. This will steam him up as well, especially if you seal it with your lip prints!
PUT LOVE IN HIS SUDS - I’m talking about a bar of soap! Scratch “I love you” into his soap so he’ll find it the next time he showers. (You may not want to seal this note with your lip prints, though).
GIVE HIM A MASSAGE - Go buy some sweet smelling oils and turn your bedroom into a spa! Give your husband a full body massage and work out those aching muscles.
PLAY ROMANTIC MUSIC - Keep a good deal of romantic music on hand in your bedroom to help set the mood for romance.
Ladies in the house what do you think?
MARRYING SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT CRAZY ABOUT
My virtual friends, i am posting this because i ant to share the burden i have in my life right now and i seek for honest answer and advice in which ever way. please keep it polite anyone could be in a similar situation and we could all learn from it at the end of the day.
I am 30years of age female working in the oil & gas sector and very comfortable financially. How ever i have been in a platonic relationship with a guy who is currently working in a bank but i am better off financially.
He never hid his intention that he loves me and would want to take things to the next level but i have always maintain my stand of us not rushing things while trying to sort out my real feelings for him.
He asked me to marry him recently and i accepted. The burden i have in my heart now is 1- I am not in love with him and also not s*xually attracted to him. By that i mean im not crazily in love but i like him as a friend.
2- I have concerns about our financial obligation in the sense that i fear he might not provide for me the way a husband should for is wife. i am a traditional person where i believe a man should always provide for his wife no matter how small, in willing to support him but through the three years we have been friends he hasn't provided in the least of money for my salon session.
i feel he is just taking advantage of the fact that i can afford it, so i feel differently. He currently lives with his family and younger brother. i talked to him one day and said he should get a house of his own but till date he hasn't and haven't made any real effort at that yet he talks about facilitating meeting my parents et al.
Question is what are the pros and cons of going ahead to marry this young man or should i just call it off as i have been tempted to several times. BTW he is 35yrs of age, has been working in the bank for 6 yrs as an employee.
As we all know the pressure young ladies face in the society about being single by 30years.
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